You have two patients who have been admitted after a serious accident. Both require immediate attention in order to survive. One patient is 20 years old; the other is 60 years old. Which life would you save?
Tip #1 on giving great feedback
Concentrate on the behaviour, not the person. Avoid feedback that cannot be acted upon.
Tip #2 on giving great feedback
Be specific. Avoid general comments that may be of limited use to the receiver. Try to include examples to illustrate your statement.